There's a local news report on about a schoolkid who died playing a "dangerous choking game," autoasphyxiation to achieve a high. 10 or 11 year old kid. And I remember reading a RE/Search or some similar thing back in the transressive late 1980s, which had a whole chapter about autoerotic asphyxiations, which were held up in ironic hero-hood, men willing to go the distance for their pleasure or their obsession. And I wonder, is this our fault?